Under pressure

It is not about Freddie Mercury's song, it is about that my finances are terribly low. I hear a lot of information about the banks going bankrupt, but my bank seems to be flourishing. My variable rate has gone up, so now I'm seriously thinking about moving my balances onto a new card.
I'm searching for balance transfer and have looked through a lot of websites including this http://creditbreak.com/Low-APR-Balance-Transfer.php. However, none of the deals seems to be really beneficial or money saving. At least, I'm going to get a fixed rate plastic.

Do I Need It?

In a constant financial fever, I started to pay less attention to my personal life. Me and Jake have almost parted, and he is about to leave. I won't stop him as I did it before. Besides, he seems to be involved in some relationship with another girl, so I don't need one who can betray me. No wonder, he says he has nothing to do with her, but I saw the messages... Do I need such relationship?
But that isn't the point, I do not want to think about it.
I see I'm drowning in debt, being lazy to cook food at home and use buses to go to work. Internet gives terrifying data which makes me fear the most awful consequences. In the publication about Credit Cards Statistics and the truth, I found some statements that can calm me down for a while, but I guess I won't be one of those who end up in courts and absolutely low credit score. I found an odd job and it will help me pay the basic debt.